The concept of “closure” in relationships took center stage in a recent episode of the ‘EXpecially for You’ segment on the noontime show ‘It’s Showtime.’
During the discussion, participants Lance, CJ, and Jeremiah shared their perspectives on the importance of closure after a breakup. Lance emphasized that without closure, unanswered questions could lead to self-doubt and insecurities. Similarly, CJ advocated for open communication during the separation process to avoid harboring negative feelings.
Jeremiah shared a personal anecdote from a past relationship, underscoring the significance of closure for both parties involved. He emphasized the value of closure in providing clarity and the opportunity to maintain an amicable relationship post-breakup.
However, show host Vice Ganda raised thought-provoking questions about the meaning of closure in relationships.
He challenged the notion that closure necessarily requires direct communication between former partners, suggesting that acceptance and personal reflection can also lead to closure.
“Lahat dapat may closure, pero ano ba ‘yung closure na tinutukoy mo? Closure ba na ibibigay ng isa, o closure na ibibigay mo mismo sa sitwasyon mo?”
Vice Ganda’s insights sparked a deeper exploration of the topic, prompting viewers to reconsider their understanding of closure in the context of relationships.
“‘Yung paghihiwalay itself is closure, kahit wala pa siyang kapaliwanagan.”
