Ellen Adarna made the rounds on social media when her statement about a cheating partner trended online. In her Instagram account, Ellen posted a Q&A for her fans to ask her and one Instagram user asked Ellen for advice with regards to a cheating partner.
The netizen asked the 32-year-old actress for advice on what she will do because she caught her partner cheating with her with another girl once again. After reading about the problem of the netizen, Ellen straightforwardly replied that even though she pities the netizen who was cheated on, she said that the Instagram user deserved it because she tolerated her partner when he first cheated on her.
“Oh my God! I pity you, but you deserve what you tolerate,” Ellen said.
Many people were impressed by the statement of the actress and said that what she said made a whole new perspective on being a victim of cheaters.
People said that her statement made them realize several things about their own romantic relationships saying that the problem is not only due to their partners but also with them if they tolerated their partners’ wrongdoings.
Netizens also said that her statement ‘spoke volumes’ which means that it gave them a strong and meaningful message for them to dwell on in their lives.
Ellen Adarna telling us not to tolerate our partners, if he cheated once DO NOT GIVE second chances. The first time is you don't deserve, the second time is what we can now say you ACTUALLY deserve it.
Speaks volumes
— closed (@sagelegance) September 30, 2020
“I caught my partner cheating again, what do I do mamsh?”
Ellen Adarna: You deserve what you tolerate.
— ً r (@ryladeIfiero) September 30, 2020
https://twitter.com/galeericathea/status/1311116919781511169
Lahat ng mga marurupok. Mag ingat sa pagbigay ng second chance. Kita nyo yung sabi ni ellen adarna about na cheat ka the second time? "you deserve what you tolerate" daw 🙂@KissesDelavin #KissesDelavin#Kissables
— Adorable Kirsten Delavin (@kapatidnikisses) September 30, 2020
https://twitter.com/bananaitmeee/status/1311226458606428162
https://twitter.com/akosiSHERLOCKH/status/1311341742357008385
Ellen Adarna saying, "you deserve what you tolerate" also totally applies to the Filipino people and our state of current affairs.
— Stan Sy (@_StanSy) September 30, 2020
The video:https://t.co/sd7xzVR8qW
— damnPEx (@damnPEx) September 30, 2020
It can be remembered that Ellen Adarna also trended on Twitter with her response to a question about her cheating boyfriend on her Instagram account.
“Kasuway naka na cheatan?” the netizen asked in Cebuano.
Ellen responded saying, “Yes dai, nag bakasyon siya, unya nasakpan nako. So, pag uli niya sa among balay that time, wala na akong mga gamit. Wala ko mangaway niya. Wala koy pangutana. I just left. Gwapa ko!”
“Yes girl, he was on vacation when I discovered. So, when he came back to our home at that time, my things were no longer there. I did not fight with him. I did not ask a single question. I just left. I’m beautiful!”
Netizens were amused by her response and loved how she handled her relationship back then. They said that she knows her worth that’s why she was able to walk away from that relationship.
However, people speculated that the cheating boyfriend that Ellen was talking about was her ex-boyfriend John Lloyd Cruz but the actress denied the rumors.
“Just to clear everything. Nope. Dili cya. Dili cya ang ni ghost and dili cya ang ni cheat. Kuyaw naman kaayos remix and feelings ning mga tao kung unsaunsa na lang mga pangstorya. Leave him alone kay dili dyd cya,” she mentioned.
(“Just to clear everything. Nope. Hindi siya. Hindi siya ang nag-ghost at hindi siya ang nag-cheat. Nakakagulat na lang talaga ‘tong remix and feelings ng mga tao kung anu-ano na lang pinagsasabi. Leave him alone dahil hindi talaga siya.)”
Ellen Adarna has a son with her ex-boyfriend John Lloyd, who is named Elias Modesto. She gave birth to Elias on June 27, 2018.
